Can we rule that any further reference to "Civil War!Tony is just like a Nazi/Tony is a fascist" in any Steve/Tony-fanfic-related discussion on fanficrants is tantamont to breaking some Marvel-fandom variant of Godwin's law and declare that anyone who does it automatically loses the argument forever? Please? I don't want to get into an argument about canon with anyone who seriously believes this, because the writing on CW was so scattershot that there's lots of room for interpretation, but personally, I find people saying this every single fucking time there's a Steve/Tony rant approximately fifty thousand times more annoying than the worst fanfic ever written. You hate Tony because of Civil War. Brilliant. What the hell does that have to do with the OP's topic of "Why is Tony always the bottom?" or "WTF, why did you write Captain America raping people?"
Nothing whatsoever, you say? Then why did you bring it up? Unless the fic being discussed involved Civil War canon, please to be taking your CW rant to whatever new comm has replaced scans_daily, where it belongs.